Life is governed by laws.
There's a lot of interesting stuff to have a look at out there.
Everything we need in our lives is already in our lives merely awaiting our recognition of it.
A lot of it is free; it isn't bought and sold, and its distinction, its difference, rather than its price tag, determines its value [See blog, Free Stuff].
There's someone who sees in us what we don't readily see -- AND we can see something in someone else that they don't readily see.
Something a person is not seeing can be hurting them or holding them back.
God always hides something a person needs in someone they don't enjoy, so that only the most passionate can discern it.
It's the Law of Recognition.